Last night, I saw this meme and my jaw dropped. In the past five years as I heal my emotional wounds, this has happened to me repeatedly, and this meme summarizes it perfectly. This is what I have learned about myslef during these past five years. We attract certain people who are not good for us because we have emotional wounds that attract these individuals. As a result, we constantly attract people into our lives who are not healthy or constructive for our lives. However, once these emotional wounds are healed, the attraction miraculously falls away.
Let me give you an example. Because I was abused sexually and physically as a child by my father, I repeatedly attracted abusers and sex offenders into my life. I was beatened by boyfriends and sexually assaulted by those I dated. This became a pattern in my life, and I was completely puzzled by why this was happening to me. From the age of 20 years old, I desperately sought help to heal these wounds through psychotherapy with little success.
During the past five years, I then began to seek forms of alternative therapies, including music, art, and dance therapies, emotional release work, yoga, meditation, acupuncture, Chi Gong, Reiki, body work/massage, energy work, breathing and relaxation techniques. My life began to change as I felt a shift within myself. It was most apparent when I stopped feeling physical, sexual, and emotional attraction to men who physically, sexually, and emotionally abused and injured me.
I believe that when we heal our emotional wounds, our energy frequency elevates and increases. When we do this, we stop resonating at the same frequency with those abusers and sex offenders. They are no longer even on my radar as we no longer resonate or vibrate at the same frequency. It is the Law of Attraction and Law of Resonance at work under the Universal laws. May you find healing for a new life! (Copyright 2016 Awakening Journey with All Rights Reserved)