There is an amazing phenomenon that occurs when we begin to change our behaviors and thoughts that translate to a change in our beliefs. During the last few days, I have been practicing emotional release practice in an attempt to cure my jealousy. When we refuse to act out on our jealousy, our belief system begin to change. It is not about changing others in their behaviors or actions, but changing our own thoughts, behaviors, and beliefs that change our views and perspectives of others and situations.
This is an interesting and amazing phenomenon! There are individuals in my life with whom I have conflicts, but who doesn’t? However, as I begin to heal my wounds, and change my thoughts, behaviors,and beliefs, I am beginning to change my perspective of them and see them differently.
A case in point involves my supervisor who I perceive to create hardships for my job, but recently all that has changed in that I am seeing and perceiving her very differently. I see that she has serious control issues that is really not about me, but about her need for control. Instead of fighting her that is what my ego wants, I am beginning to work through difficulties about her without her involvement.
This process shows that resolution with an individual does not even require the participation of the other. It is really resolution within ourselves about our situations, involving others, or in our relationships. This is quite a revelation for me, as I have been trying to resolve differences with others through compromise, dialogue, and mediation.
I am not saying that communication is unimportant as it is, but there are many circumstances in our lives that communications with others is simply not possible or probable. This is what I have come to understand, and I move forward now with this new perspectives and approach. (Copyright 2015 Awakening Journey with All Rights Reserved)